Lets see how this discussion develops. One caveat: I do ask is that we all play nice in this sandbox. So no mud slinging at those that differ in opinion. After reading misc OV35 discussions, it has come to my attention that a lot of US over 35 think that a PM between members of the opposite sex is a bad four letter word. The hot button words were: secretive, infidelity, inappropriate and so on, but you get the picture and where I am going with it. My thing is that the connotation of it being a sinister act is complete bull**** of an assumption. For one this being a very open site where the individual has rather limited control of what things are displayed or not (a big pet peeve of mine but a topic for another day). But it does not mean that everything has to be out in the open and therefore some things have to go off screen. The floor is open, run with it.