Okay so I'm a 16 year old girl who is chubby. I guess you could call me fat, but I'm definitely not super fat or obese. (see my pics if you want to be grossed out LOL) Anyways there's this guy at my gym who I see a lot. He goes to my school, but that doesn't really bother me. What bothers me is that my best friend told me that he texts me whenever he sees me at the gym and he says things like "The planet is here. She's running. I just threw up a little." First off obviously that was extremely rude of him, especially since I rarely talk to him and I never do at the gym! I mean it's not like I wanna be chubby! I'm at the gym busting my butt to try to lose weight! Secondly, now I feel really self-conscious at the gym! It's not like I'm the fattest person at the gym, but I still feel really self-conscious and not just around him; now I feel self-conscious around guys in general at the gym. A lot of guys at my school go to my gym. I feel like they will laugh at me if I go on the elliptical and especially if I go to the weight room. So do you have any advice on what I should do? If I see him again, should I ignore him? Be mean to be him?