Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

With the sun being out you see so many lads walking round with their tops off who are not in good shape at all. Even though I do probably have a better body then a lot of them, I wouldn't dream of walking round with my top on as I'm not happy with how I look. Yet these lads seem happy with ther bodies. Do you ever wish you could be like that? Or are you like that?

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

I like going swimming with my top off. but in the street? no. Thats showing off a bit. I would feel more conscience.

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

yes and no...

it'd be a hell of a lot cheaper to eat ****, and be happy fat..

but on the other hand.... do you want to look in the mirror and think, "they need to be bigger" and then proceed to hammer said muscles in the gym?

if you dont have goals in life, whats the point in living?

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

No one like a show off

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

But what are they? Oblivious to the fact they look sh1t?

No, I wouldn't want to be like that, I'd prefer to be conscious of how I look and continue to strive to look better

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

i know what you mean mate

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

Very self conscious. Hate summer time, never know what to wear.

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

maybe they used to look worse and want to show off what they have achieved.

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

i like being unhappy with how i look, before i never cared but now im more conscious and i prefer it like that because it what motivates me and keeps me going to the gym every day!

 

Do you ever wish you were just comfortable with how you look?

I don't think being comfortable in any area is a good thing.

I think the fact we aren't comfortable with either who we are or what we look like can be a good thing in that it drives us forwards to being the best we can be. When people get comfortable is when they get complacent and stop striving for improvement.

I think however, this is a double edged sword, having a mild level of discomfort is fine but some folk get on the extreme side of this range and because of that go to unhealthy lengths in whatever it is in their life, be it work life or self improvement and at that point it can be a bad thing.

Personally I can be quite an extreme sort of guy, its one of the reasons I'm successful in work but it has over the years had a strong negative effect on my life too in that I have become too obsessed by work of self improvement other areas of my life have suffered like my relationships with my family, friends and girlfriends. I've never been very good at balancing life.

So in answer either way can be both positive and negative at the same time.