You know when girls say they did or did not feel "sparks" with some guy. Is the "spark" just some woman thing or are guys suppose to feel it too? I feel like I'm just happy when i find a girl that seems trustworthy, attractive, funny, and fun to be around. But there is no magic way of her kissing me or sexing me that has to occur to keep her around. I mean although some girls are better kissers and better at sex than others, im willing to let them learn how i like it and stay with them as long as they have the previous traits because a person can learn to be better at kissing/sexing they can't really learn traits and character. And when girls always say "i like him more like a friend even though hes attractive, a great guy, and all that" it makes no sense to me. All i want from a girl in the end is someone who's like a female best friend who i also get to have sex with and spend my days with. So seriously...wtf is up with girls who dump guys they say have it all but there was just no "spark"?