I hear all too often mates who have been in relationships for a few years saying "i'm bored as fcuk of my bird now, still love her but can't even be ar5ed fcuking her, it's a chore, the sex life is completely dead" and it worries me as my longest relationship was just 18 months and i was bored after about 6 months, i felt like i needed exposure and attention from new girls and i know it's wrong but i cheated a lot. *Let me just clarify before i go in to this thread properly that i haven't cheated on my current gf (incase she reads this) lol. I've been with my current gf for longer than 6 months and things are still exciting, i feel more of a connection and we're very sexually compatible. But then again it's only been 6 months, and i'm sure in those relationships where i hear my mates say "i'm bored as fcuk by her" that their gf's are probably saying exactly the same about them. There has been stories i've heard where their gf only has sex with them like every 3-4 months, this is even lads in their mid 20's... personally i could not be with a girl like that, 1st of all if my gf didn't want regular sex with me i'd be doubting my own abilities in the bedroom, so would have to dump her go and satisfy many other girls to repair my ego lol. Now i mentioned cheating earlier, my opinion on cheating has changed massively over the past 5 years, i used to think "what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her" but now i am a bit more mature i actually don't want to cheat on my girl because of the love i have for her. Out of my mates, i'll say that most of them do cheat... lets just say they were 20 miles away from home and an attractive girl offers it on a plate, they just will do no questions asked and i know this is the way for many many men out there. On the other hand, you have people who have never cheated, are dead against it and have a hate for cheaters, people that are in long term relationships that have just not done it and slate any cheaters. But then again, they may not of been in the same situations.... if you got Joe Average, has a wife, 2 kids... imagine he's on a business trip, 200 miles away from home and a tasty as fcuk lap dancer whispers in to his ear "i wanna suck your cock so bad! i finish in 20 mins, you can come for a drink at mine" or what if the same guy was on Facebook and some hot little 16 year old with big jugs pops up on the chat and says "I've been reading 50 shades of grey, and i've decided that i need a good bumming and spanking and i really want an older man to do it, guys my age don't know what they are doing" Now i'm not sure if a guy who has been sleeping with one women for 10 years could actually withstand stuff like that, sure they may have a hate for cheaters but they may not of been in any situations that was tempting enough, could they really turn down good offers if they knew they would get away with it 100%? I'm not sure about that tbh. All of the above can be reversed and applied to women as well, i've even had it when i've woken up with a random women from a bar, and after a night of sex she's said "by the way, i'm married so you'll have to keep all this secret" Another one that i was shocked by, a girl who always put on her Facebook status "I love my bf so so much, i'm the luckiest girl alive " and within the 1st 10 mins of being alone with me after a night out she tried it on and after a night of sex i asked "do you feel guilty?" and she replied with "well, funnily enough not at all" so it made me think fcuk, even the girls that appear the happiest may want new sexual encounters. Anyway what's your opinions on what i've gone over in this thread, please keep it clean so it's not moved to the Adult Lounge.