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    Discussion in 'Over Age 35' started by masoven4u, Apr 15, 2012.

    1. masoven4u

      masoven4u Well-Known Member

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      It was hard, very hard They hate me for whatever reason, so I left. That was about 8 hours ago... No calls, no texts I work hard, I lift hard, I put a beautiful house over their heads. It's not enough and I'm very sad I drove for hours, I'm in a hotel now. Not sure where, but safe and sound. Am I that bad why why don't they care where I am or went... Our house is so nice. Our cars are so nice, our yard is so nice. I work so hard to give us nice things. So...... I ran away like a little kid I don't want to go back.

       
    2. crormaSoila18

      crormaSoila18 Well-Known Member

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      I up and left my family

      Young lady, wherever you're at, physically/mentally/emotionally ~ prayers for you!
       
    3. defelqy

      defelqy Well-Known Member

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      I up and left my family

      Sorry to hear it. I don't have any sage advice except maybe take a day or two to cool off and gather your thoughts whether they call or not (assuming there are adults there, of course). Nothing will be clear or resolved if you return while being so upset.
       
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      jailynn24hb Well-Known Member

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      I up and left my family

      Get on the phone with someone you trust and talk to them.
       
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      I up and left my family

      ^^^^ This!
       
    6. masoven4u

      masoven4u Well-Known Member

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      I up and left my family

      So don't go back. Find your peace first before you do anything.
       
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      I up and left my family

      do u have kids? if so than u have to be mature about it and think about ur kids first...srs
       
    8. defelqy

      defelqy Well-Known Member

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      I up and left my family

      Yes, absolutely, please do this. Take care of yourself, I'm glad you're in a safe place. I'm sure your family does not hate you, even the closest families have problems sometimes.
       
    9. jailynn24hb

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      I up and left my family

      Hopefully they have noticed your unhappy and are giving you your space.....gather yourself and call someone you trust.....never leave on bad terms....the next hours are never guaranteed
       
    10. suighja

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      I up and left my family

      Prayers sent.

      Be safe and carefully think things through carefully. I'm sure your girls love you even if they don't always show it.
       
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