younger guy who under 35 Been dating girl for awhile now. My 1st srs. relationship. She hinted about me at getting married. past couple of days ive been thinking. My parents were divorced right before i went to college. They bit*hed about having to raise kids and the strain on their marriage. People tell me all the time its not your fault. I know that but i don't want to have kids if im going to hate it like my parents. Ive never had a good relationship w/ my dad. My biggest fear is having a son and were not as tight as a knot. Just tell over 35 misc......do you enjoy having kids,do you have fun w/them, have they made your life better, have they help/or hurt your marriage??????????????????