Hai there new friends in fem misc. I have a situation im going to be in here in about a month or so and Im trying to figure out how best to deal with it and would like some advice. Well about 6 months ago ended a really rough situation with my ex. (Eluded to this in previous posts) Took me a while before I felt like myself again mentally and emotionally. For sake of time heres cliffs of 6 month ago situation. - Long term GF breaks up with me, is uncertain, says she wants time, we stay close friends - Stayed close all summer till new semester - Get closer during new semester, seems like we are going to be back together (def not just friends, physically or emotionally) - I tell her I still have feelings for her, she responds accepting but still not ready - Starts talking to a bunch of guys - twice I confront her about a particular guy being honest, calm, respectful, trusting; she denies involvement - one week later she talks to me about marriage. 3 weeks later I found out she has been dating the guy I asked her about and has made plans to rent apartment with guy - Im devastated, tell her peace out, havnt talked till 3 weeks ago (was in December) - she tells me she broke up with newboy a month later and dropped out of school because of severe depression Heres the situation coming up. She is in my circle of friends and she has expressed interest in returning to the club I teach.(BJJ club and one of the places we initially met) Im over her and am looking forward to meeting new girls even though I still remember the stuff I went through. (stuff not in cliffs) I also dont feel like I can deny her the chance to train again as most members of the club are her friends and my role in the club is to teach anyone interested. Im just trying to figure out how to go about my interactions with her. I was just planning on being neutrally friendly as Im pretty sure when the club meets will only be the time Ill see her. Im also worried that any future GF might get concerned that my ex is training in a grappling club, (though I will def. not be training personally with her.) I know Id be asking a lot of her to be understanding. Ive never been in a situation like this and dont know how to handle it, which is not common for me.